dream, dream, dream

after seeing 1 entire korean series (ya lah, i watch it, see-lai mah) in 4 days, i am now dreaming........dreaming of a real man.
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sorry, floating off again to my dreams. what i will like to know is if there is any real man out there? the types that fairy tales are made out of. no, not those wimpy prince charming type that is so effeminate. my goodness, picking up women's shoes and wearing it for them. ergggghh! or those tai kor gangster type. too much bloodshed for me.

i want those that are brimming with confidence, with a slight touch of arrogance. i think confidence is so sexy. of course, that means they must have qualities that make them justifiably so. not those self-centered idiots out there who is over-confident for the wrong reasons and believe that the whole world is in love with them (whilst having the looks of a monkey's behind. erm....you would think that i have somebody in mind with such vehement opinions but i'm not directing it at anybody in particular).

i love guys who push you against the wall / lift / whatever is convenient and gives you a good hard kiss when you least expected it. or those that grab you by the hand and pulls you to a private corner / wherever he wants to go for a quiet talk when things go bad. men who is not afraid of arguing in the public or telling the world that he loves you. who doesn't take no for an answer or gives up after several tries. when you have a fight and refuses to talk to him...you know the types that give up after several tries and then say "YOU don't want to talk to me mah"......grrrrrr! get some balls. women want you to try harder. it's just to show us that we really mean a lot.

i don't care if he never opens the door for me or pulls out the chair. i want someone who never think twice about standing up for me. who calls me his woman and whom will never fall into temptation (because he has no regards for anyone else). who doesn't ask for the first kiss but just takes it. who knows what he wants and how to get it. and puhlease, not those type who have nothing better to do than to attend to you everyday of the week. a man who is serious about his career is very .....*swoon* sexy. but then again, not the workaholic types. with those, you never know which comes first, you or the work.

those that are not afraid of telling you how they feel about you, whatever the consequences. i mean if they can't even own up to their own feelings, how much of a man can they be? love doesn't always have to equal into relationship.

i like men to take the lead, as long as he knows where he wants to lead me to. to take what he wants and never apologising for it. and never to wear his love on his sleeve or mouth. because you know, in the end, he has you in the heart and whatever he says or do, it is because of you.

these are not meant at men-bashing, so please don't get offended, but is merely the opinion of this woman. the dreams and secret desire of one woman, who does not represent the whole female population.