how do you like it?

 heck, i didn't even know how i like my eggs done. happens apparently to someone who has been the one half of a couple for the longest time. as days pass, you lose a little bit of yourself with every compromise, with every negotiation, with every give and take. sometimes you end up forgetting who you are.

i also didn't know how i like my coffee. americano plain and simple? dripping sweet caramel macchiato? strong and black espresso? creamy soft cafe latte? or did i prefer tea over coffee, for that matter. it took time, countless trial and errors, many visits to cafes and coffee houses to finally found what works for me. life is an endless process of learning, about others, about the things around you as much as about yourself.